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align="center">Table of Contents</p><p> <strong>INTRO</strong><strong>.. </strong><strong>vii</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>What is Network Marketing or MLM?</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>vii</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>I heard these types of business are illegal – pyramids or something – is it a pyramid?</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>ix</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 1 &#8211; HAVE A DREAM</strong><strong>&#8230; </strong><strong>1</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Why network marketing?</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>1</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Financially – the most rewarding dream</strong><strong>.. </strong><strong>3</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Essentials of Network Marketing?</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>4</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 2 – CREATE A PLAN</strong><strong>.. </strong><strong>7</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Here are 7 questions you need to ask of the MLM’s plan</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>8</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 3- ASSOCIATE with people who have achieved that goal, or dream</strong><strong>.. </strong><strong>10</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Mentoring and Association – the concept of a recipe to follow. Duplication</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>10</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>The concept of Association</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>11</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 4 – WHAT YOU NEED TO GIVE UP</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>13</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>It’s not a free ride- why do so many people quit MLM’s?</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>13</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Leveraging Time</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>14</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Leveraging Money</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>15</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 5 – BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>16</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Find a trustworthy group who will hold you accountable to your work habits</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>16</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 6 – DO THE WORK</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>19</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>You are 100% changed by two things –</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>19</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Deadlines</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>20</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>CHAPTER 7 – NEVER QUIT</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>23</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>All succeeding comes from failing.</strong><strong> </strong><strong>23</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>The 7 keys to look for in a M.L.M. system or Network Marketing company</strong><strong> :</strong><strong> </strong><strong>24</strong><strong></strong></p><p><strong>WRAP-UP</strong><strong>. </strong><strong>25</strong></p><p>&nbsp;</p><h3>EXTRACT</h3><p>&#8220;This is not a book to induce you to join some particular MLM or Network Marketing organization</p><p>This guide will do two things for you:<br
/> 1) Give you the information you need to choose the right Network Marketing Business for your work habits.<br
/> PLUS<br
/> 2) A game plan for personal success is this or any business.</p><p>In my opinion, and the opinion  of many highly successful entrepreneurs – the Network Marketing business model is one of the best model out there to leverage success.</p><p><em>(See for instance – The business of the 21st century Robert Kiyosaki , Contact Capital by Bob proctor, Prosumer Power by Bill Quain, Donald Trump’s –Trump Network, Household Gold by Steve W Price, Developing Leaders Around You by John Maxwell &#8211; to name a few off the top)</em></p><p>The trick is to know how to choose the right one for you</p><p>This guide will give you the information to make an informed decision.</p><p><strong>A Little History</strong></p><p>First there was <strong>franchising</strong>, where you could expand your business, your market, your geographic reach and at the same time benefit from another sales &#8211; without doing the actual work yourself. A brilliant idea</p><p>However it was touch and go whether the FTC would make it a legal enterprise, for although there was Howard Johnston and then Ray Kroc’s McDonalds, there was also a lot of ‘blue sky’ being sold. That is, area and franchise fees for businesses that would never exist. As with any new edgy idea, the fast talkers were there in droves.</p><p>In the end the more sensible businesses proved themselves and the FTC made Franchising within certain parameters a legal enterprise</p><p>Taking the idea forward another step there was in the late 1940’s Private Franchising, where a manufacturer would create a network of distributors  (a free sales force) that they paid percentages of overall sales to, with each distributor being not just a salesperson, but also part of an income sharing network; Multi-Level Marketing.(MLM)</p><p>It started, after the Second World War, with a nutrition product from a company called Nutrilite. That venture eventually fell apart, with the distributor force going on to create Amway Corp. MLM. was also investigated by the FTC, who eventually decided it could be a legal business, if the MLM. followed (believe it or not) the Amway income distribution model.</p><p>Again a lot of blue sky is sold under the auspices of MLM, up to an including the present day. It doesn’t take any capital to pretend to have a new fantastic MLM and then start selling spots in the network.</p><p>However that does not hide the fact that both Public Franchising and Multi-Level, or Network Marketing can be a fantastic way to make a lot of money in this consumer driven market. From both you get a proven business model, minimal government red tape, and very little paperwork compared to trying to run a solo business.</p><p>On the Internet, Network Marketing and Affiliate Marketing flourishes, with even less paperwork, and usually digital products are involved that require no shipping, no handling no warehouses, no shipping returns.</p><p><strong>  The main difference between Private Franchising (MLM) or Public Franchising</strong>?</p><p>The capital cost to start- up, (for instance a McDonalds’ needs $300, 000 of non-borrowed up-front costs to get started. And you have a designated territory.</p><p>A Network Marketing Business costs anywhere from $50 &#8211; $200 to get up and running -and in MLM/Private Franchising there are (usually) no territorial boundaries.</p><p>A 17 year old or a 70 year old can get started in network marketing part time and create a sizable income within a few years.</p><p>Public Franchising requires capital and a full time commitment, and if you quit – you’re bankrupt.</p><p>Private Franchising is usually part time, little or no cost, and if you quit, you just go on with your life (which is why so many quit – no commitment).&#8221;</p><p><strong>see larger extract at &#8211; <a
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id="top" /><strong>what did I learn about dating as a teenager?</strong></p><p><strong> nothing.<a
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class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1955" title="dating" src="http://www.martingover.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/dating-300x299.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="299" /></a></strong></p><p>I wanted sex and plenty of it. Groping and cuddling and girls who were fun to be with and didn&#8217;t interupt my words of wisdom or anything else.</p><p>If I wanted to see THIS movie &#8211; then they should want to see THIS movie.</p><p>If I wanted to leave the party NOW &#8211; they should leave the party NOW.</p><p>I had a hair trigger jealousy factor. But didn&#8217;t understand their concerns or jealous moods</p><p>I had a rule never date the same girl for more than three months. No matter what.Her feelings were irrelevant. My feelings counted.</p><p>( if they left me, I would be devastated for weeks and barely able to think straight)</p><p>I remember the first really serious girlfriend I had (I mean SERIOUS) eventually she got so sick of my ways (read &#8211; selfish egotistical) that she left me and refused my phone calls etc.</p><p>She moved 200 miles away from me. I badgered her and badgered her to come back. Used every ploy and lie and turn I knew. And when she came back I left her.</p><p>My understands of human intercourse (and sexual intercourse come to that) were nil. And I wasn&#8217;t about to learn, because well &#8211; I knew so much.</p><p><strong>So- dont do any of the above.</strong></p><p>Perhaps try these tips when you are with someone on a first date</p><p>* Be attentive, and this does not involve the ears, you need to observe those unspoken words and signs from the other person. Be sensitive, it really matters a lot.</p><p>* Do not think about the event in a very serious demeanor. It may just put you under so much pressure. Think of the fact that you are here to get to know each other, have the best time and make the most out of the special event of your lives.</p><p>* Avoid dominating the conversation especially for men. Make it sure that your voice volume is in moderation and you talk with the person in a sincere manner. When you do this, you would be listened to not only on that very time but in more conversations to come. You have to remember that generally people love it when others listen to them.</p><p>* No discussions about ex-partners and of course about sex. This goes out both ways, no matter how the other person tempts you, be reminded that when out on a date, and you are in a conversation about such matters, less is more.</p><p>* Give the singular focus to your date. Do not be too distracted with other people around you, no matter how attractive the woman in at the next table is. Any person likes that attention from the opposite sex. Keep focused.</p><p>* Be witty. (If you can &#8211; at least be straightforward) This is the most attractive point you could flaunt to your date. Nothing beats having a really fun but wholesome conversation.No need to discuss world politics and banging the table as you do.</p><p>Lastly 3 more tips</p><ul><li>Observe      punctuality.(not my strong point &#8211; even now)</li></ul><p>Time matters in almost any meeting or activity, it matters most in a date especially if it is the first date. Cliché as it may seem but first impressions last and you have to take good care of your date’s impression of you. It may mean something negative if you fail to arrive on time. You may have all the excuses, but you have to show the best efforts in order not to be late.</p><ul><li>Remind      yourself that you are just excited and not nervous</li></ul><p>That strange pump of your heart is just going to distract you from doing well and enjoying your time. Well, it is but normal to feel that way but do not allow it to swallow you and stop you from doing the things you wanted to do. If you cannot stand the feeling, see to it that you divert that emotion to something that is more positive. Instead of feeling nervous, you have to remind yourself that you are just excited. This could really help you ease the burden of being worried or pressured. Being nervous does not help you (or your date) out.But if you really cant beat it &#8211; tell her/him &#8211; &#8220;gee I am so nervous&#8221; &#8211; because&#8230;</p><ul><li>Honesty      is still the best policy</li></ul><p>You do not have to impress your date by telling tall tales. Sincerity and honesty would always lead you to that acceptance from others. With your honest way of opening yourself to that person you choose to go out with, you would surely reap a warm and honest treatment as well. You could appear impressive without being dishonest. When you are true to what you say and feel, it exudes.</p><p><strong>part 2 &#8211; How to Ask Someone Out on a Date</strong></p><h4>Related Blogs</h4><ul
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